Black men, if you are really so tired of Black women wearing weaves, then simply stop dating Black women who wear weaves. Problem solved. I don’t say this to say that Black women shouldn’t love themselves so much that weaves should be out of the question anyway. I say this to say that Black men do too much white worshiping. We are supposed to be the leaders of our tribes and we have become weak and made ourselves victim to supremacy. I understand indoctrination very well. But I also understand common sense. I believe that it is time that we start using common sense.
As kings of our tribes and women and children, we should be setting the guidelines. The only way the Black woman can become so reckless that she becomes out of control, is if a Black man tolerates this behavior. If your woman takes a crap on you then it is your fault if you tolerate that behavior. Have some damn dignity and some damn pride.
As Black men, if you believe that a Black woman is beautiful without her weave, you need to not only tell her, but demand excellence from her. If you fail to do that, then you have no right to complain when she falls short of this expectation. As long as this is not an expectation, then what the hell are we complaining about? The problem is so easy to fix. However, your behavior can only be fixed by you. This is something that we have to do collectively. You have a choice. . . be satisfied with cheap knock offs of white women, or be proud kings with Black queens who appreciate their own beauty that you supposedly admire.